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No special Mother’s Day for me May 12, 2008

Filed under: Life - Mood: Unappreciated — thecrazymommafiles @ 4:33 am
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My thoughts of being pampered and appreciated today quickly faded when I got up this morning to make coffee and cook breakfast. Not quite what I expected, but we were running late in getting ready for church, so it was really no big deal.

Yesterday, I’d told S that I’d like him to make his lasgna for me for dinner. So after church, he dropped K and I off at home (D had spent the weekend with his friend) and he went to the store to get the rest of what he needed for dinner. I had to run to the store to get Meme’s gift, since S didn’t want to stop and get it last night while we were out. While there I decided to pick myself out a few things from myself for Mother’s Day since it was obvious that no one else had thought about getting me anything.

When I get back home, the lasagna was ready, I prepared Meme’s gift and we headed to her house to take her dinner and her gift. We get back home and I help S finish our dinner. We sit down to eat and afterwards I’m off to the kitchen to clean up what S didn’t clean while he cooked, as well as picking up the mess K had left all of the family room. Later, I make our usual evening coffee and S and I down to relax.

All day, I’d been secretly hoping that he’d had bought me something and would spring it on me any minute. But my earlier assumption had been right, he hadn’t. He’d told me “Happy Mother’s Day” throughout the day, but I was still kind of sad that he didn’t even get me a card. And it’s not like we didn’t have a few extra dollars in the bank for him to get something. If there isn’t any other day that I’d like to be shown a little bit appreciation, I’d expect it on Mother’s Day. I ask myself if I’m whining over nothing. I just felt unappreciated – B didn’t even call me until late in the evening – a call that I missed and he didn’t even call back. At one time, it was guaranteed that he’d acknowledge me on Mother’s Day with some small token of appreciation. And then D didn’t make it home until almost 9pm.

Oh well, I will just chalk it up and move on to tomorrow. Happy Mother’s Day to me!

 

Did You Know – Mildred Loving, matriarch of interracial marriage, dies May 8, 2008

Filed under: Did You Know — thecrazymommafiles @ 12:08 am
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Our world is made up of some many kinds of couples. Have you ever thought of the first brave interracial couple that went against the grain and challenged the prejudices of our country? If you are like me, I never have, since I’m not in an interracial relationship. However, my sister is and so are several of my friends. So this Did You Know post is for them, as well of those of you who dare to see past color and love someone of another race.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080505/ap_ … bit_loving

Mrs. Loving, a black woman, commited the “crime” of being in a relationship with a white man in Virginia. They had a child together when she was 18 and lived together when they were arrested in their sleep. If convicted, they both would have had to serve 1 year in jail because they were “cohabiting as man and wife, against the peace and dignity of the Commonwealth.” Instead of serving jail time they decided to move away from their families to Washington and they married in 1958. They then began working on their case with the ACLU and on June 12th 1967 the Supreme Court made it legal to marry inter-racially.

Every year on June 12th, Loving Day is celebrated so I encourage those of us who were affected by this law to do something in honor of this couple. Here is a link to site dedicated to this couple and the law they helped pass.

http://www.lovingday.org/

Here is a great video celebrating inter-racial relationships.

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea … oid=926215

 

5 Ways To Go Green May 7, 2008

Filed under: Living Green — thecrazymommafiles @ 11:42 pm
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As you can see, I’m still on my going green kick. I’m actually getting a kick out of it, but it’s driving my dear hubby nuts! He can’t seem to remember what gets recycled and what gets trashed. So the rest of it seems to fall on deaf ears. And forget having him to use the reusable grocery bags (which we now have 7 of!) However, I will continue my quest to in doing just a little bit help preserve our planet and environment.

Sidenote, would you believe that I was driving down the street one day last week and actually saw a lady dumping old food down the storm drains? I wanted to physically shake her and say, “Lady, do you know that that mess is going right into our creeks?” But that too would have fallen on deaf ears. So I didn’t waste my time. No, by no means am I one of those “Save Our Planet” fanatics. But I have become somewhat more conscientious of the things that we do on a daily basis that affects our planet. And just by making a few small changes, we can help preserve our planet and its resources for our children. Don’t our children deserve it? Not to mention, going green can also help you save some of your hard earned money. Okay, end of my sidenote.

Now back to the original reason for this post. Looking for more ways to go green? Here are a few that I’ve come across, would you believe from my bank? Go BOFA!!!

5 Ways To Go Green

1. Park It
Promote climate change and save some gas money simply by relying less on your car. If you have access to trains, buses, or subways, use them. If you don’t, organize a car pool with coworkers. For those who simply can’t avoid driving, changing your oil regularly will make your vehicle last longer, reduce the likelihood of costly engine trouble, and reduce emissions. Another way to effect climate change and save at the pump, if your employer will allow it, is to telecommute a couple of days per week.

2. The Green House Effect
Make sure you’re using energy efficiently at home. Installing insulated high-performance windows and investing in energy efficient appliances (look for the Energy Star label) can save you 20-30% on your heating and cooling bill. A simple practice like moving your thermostat up two degrees in the summer and down two degrees in the winter could save 2,000 pounds of carbon dioxide a year. If you have central air conditioning, don’t close vents in unused rooms — most of the air will simply stay in the tubing, doing nothing to reduce your bill or lower emissions.

Set your refrigerator’s temperature at 37 degrees and your freezer at three — many people set these temperatures much lower than necessary, wasting energy and increasing emissions. When it comes to cooking, a microwave uses far less energy than a conventional oven or stove. You can also cut energy costs and reduce the burning of gas or coal by line-drying your clothes. You don-t need to hang your laundry out in the back yard — simply put a line up in your bathroom or laundry room.

Make sure your household gadgets are powered by rechargeable batteries. This is far more economical than constantly replacing dead batteries and will reduce the amount of dangerous waste in landfills. Energy efficient light bulbs both last longer and reduce the amount of electricity needed to light your home. There’s also the old trick of simply turning off the light when you leave a room.

3. Live Off the Land
If you have the space, the soil, and the green thumb, plant a garden to lower your food costs. Then fertilize it by starting a compost pile. This will reduce food waste and provide you with free, eco-friendly fertilizer. When you do buy food, go local and organic whenever possible. You’ll be supporting eco-friendly farming as well as your local economy. Organic foods are not cheap, but consider joining a food co-op if one exists in your area. Co-ops and farmers markets usually sell organic or locally grown foods and are much less expensive than corporate grocery stores. One should also never underestimate the power of leftovers. Salvaging what’s left on your plate prevents waste and the need to buy lunch.

4. Shop Responsibly
Meat is expensive for you and the fertilizers used in meat production are notorious carbon emitters. You also run the risk of eating meat tainted with pesticides and antibiotics. But the carnivorous environmentalists among us should take note: According to the Center for Science in the Public Interest, simply eliminating one 3.5 ounce serving of beef, one egg, and one ounce of cheese from your daily diet will eliminate the need for 40 pounds of fertilizer.

Water may very well be the healthiest thing we can get for free, so why pay to get it out of a plastic bottle? Stop buying bottled water and invest in a simple filter for your kitchen tap. When you do buy heavily packaged groceries, make sure the packaging is recyclable. Then make sure you recycle it.

5. Cut the Paper
Even recycled paper requires an enormous amount of water and energy to produce. Eliminate the need for paper whenever possible. If you’re a coffee drinker, try making your own at home. You won’t produce any waste and the coffee maker will pay for itself with the money you save at coffee shops. Simply eliminating one three-dollar cup of coffee per day will save you almost $700 per year. Many cafes will also offer a discount if you bring your own mug. If 50 customers of a gourmet coffee chain were to use a reusable mug each day, they could help eliminate the need for 150,000 disposable paper cups daily. This equals 1.7 million pounds of paper, 3.7 million pounds of solid waste, and 150,000 trees a year.

Then there’s junk mail. According to the Center for a New American dream, a nonprofit organization promoting responsible consumerism, the average American receives 11 pieces of junk mail each week. All that unsolicited mail amounts to 100 million lost trees a year. You can personally save two of those trees simply by removing yourself from as many mailing lists as possible. In most cases you will still be able to receive special offers through email. Many companies now offer electronic statements via email and online bill payment options. These solutions will help cut down on paper and save you money. Relying more on email and less on hand-written letters will have similar benefits for the earth and your budget. Add a footer to your outgoing emails encouraging recipients to forego printing them. When you do have to use paper, print on both sides as often as possible.

 

Reduce Allergens in Your Home Room by Room May 6, 2008

Filed under: Household Stuff — thecrazymommafiles @ 1:39 am
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Do you have anyone in your home that suffers from allergies? My little one and I have been fighting allergy bugs for the for the past couple of weeks. I found this information, courtesy of Clean Home Journal, and thought I’d share. Even allergies are not reeking havoc in your life, you may still want to freshen up your home a bit.

The average home can have allergens* from dust mites to pet dander and pollen**. While you can’t control the world outside your home, you can clean away allergens inside your home.

The Kitchen

* Appliances and Utensils
Kitchen appliances, like blenders, mixing bowls and cooking utensils can accumulate dust, dirt and allergens if they are not cleaned regularly. Make sure to wash, wipe and rinse them off with dish soap at least once a week.

* Cabinets and Counters
Pay just as much attention to your kitchen cabinets as you do your counters. Cabinets often go ignored because more attention is given to surfaces, such as counters and stove tops, which tend to accumulate visible cooking residue. Cabinets are just as likely to get dusty and dirty, so don’t forget to wipe them down!

The Living Room & Bedroom

* Ceiling Fans and Crown Molding
It’s easy to forget to dust the ceiling. However, a lot of allergens from dust and dust mites collect on ceiling fans and the nooks of crown molding. To effectively combat these hard-to-reach areas, use a Swiffer Dusters® with Extendable Handle. It traps and locks household allergens* instead of spreading them around like traditional feather dusters.

* Pillows and Blankets
Soft surfaces like decorative pillows and blankets on the bed and couch often go unwashed, and can pack on the dirt, dust and allergens. Febreze® Allergen Reducer™ is a great tool to use to freshen fabrics because it reduces up to 75% of allergens* that can become airborne. Such allergens can also hide in other soft surfaces such as carpets, curtains, comforters and pet beds.

Bathroom

* Rugs and Shower Curtains
You might not see them, but hair and dust balls build up on soft surfaces like bath rugs and shower curtains. When cleaning the bathroom, give them a scrub the same as you would your bathtub, toilet or sink. First, take the rug and shower curtain outside and beat or shake thoroughly to get rid of loose particles. Then read the label to see if you can wash them in hot water to remove any remaining allergens.

* Trash Cans
Trashcans in the bathroom are usually, “out of sight, out of mind,” and may not be taken out as often as they should be. A good rule of thumb: take out the bathroom trash whenever you take out the garbage in the kitchen.

Incorporate these tips into your cleaning routine to help reduce in-home allergens in the spring and all-year round.

*Common household allergens from cats, dogs, and dust mites. Use Swiffer Dusters to reduce allergens while you dust from hard surfaces. Use Febreze Allergen Reducer to reduce allergens that can become airborne from fabrics.

**Pollen from Birch trees, Timothy grass, and Ragweed

 

Recipe of the Week – Chile Chicken Enchiladas May 6, 2008

Filed under: Recipe of the Week — thecrazymommafiles @ 1:30 am

Got leftover chicken that needs to be used? Or just in the mood for chicken? Try this chicken enchilada recipe.

Difficulty: Easy
Prep Time: 20 min
Start to Finish: 1 hr
Yield: 8 enchiladas

Ingredients:
1 can (19 oz) Old El Paso® enchilada sauce (any variety)
2 cups diced cooked chicken
1 1/2 cups shredded Monterey Jack cheese (6 oz)
1 cup sour cream
1 can (4.5 oz) Old El Paso® chopped green chiles
1 package (11.5 oz) Old El Paso® flour tortillas for burritos (8 tortillas)
1 cup shredded Cheddar cheese (4 oz)
Chopped avocado or green onions, if desired

1. Heat oven to 350°F. Spread 1/2 cup enchilada sauce over bottom of ungreased 13×9-inch (3-quart) glass baking dish. In medium bowl, stir together chicken, Monterey Jack cheese, sour cream and chiles.

2. Spoon about 1/3 cup chicken mixture down center of each tortilla. Roll up tortillas; arrange, seam side down, in baking dish. Top enchiladas with remaining enchilada sauce. Sprinkle with Cheddar cheese. Spray sheet of foil with cooking spray; cover baking dish with foil, sprayed side down.

3. Bake 35 minutes. Remove foil; bake 5 to 10 minutes longer or until hot and cheese is melted. Top with avocado or green onions. If desired, serve with lettuce, chopped tomato and additional sour cream.