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Stop Living in the Negative. Start Taking Care of Yourself. April 15, 2008

Filed under: It's All About Me — thecrazymommafiles @ 12:47 am

Total health and total fitness are one and the same to me. You must be mentally, physically, and emotionally fit/healthy to embrace, enjoy, and make the most out of your life.

That being said, what are you doing to enhance your level of fitness, or, to look at the other side of the coin, what are you not doing that is causing you to be unhealthy, or unfit? To get the most out of your life – you’ve got to stop! Face it, we only have control over the few things in life that, well, we actually have control over. It’s a bummer, but it’s true.

So much in life feels, seems, and probably is, out of your control – but when it comes to your health – there is a lot you can do – or stop not doing – to be fitter, get healthier, and enjoy your life more. “Those who think they have not time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness.” – Edward Stanley

Exercise more – this you have control over. Do it. You need to do aerobic and resistance/weight bearing exercise regularly. Walking is a fantastic exercise (and anybody can do it!), it is weight bearing and aerobic and will keep your muscles and bones strong and your heart cardiovascularly fit. Walking is great for losing weight, improving circulation, relieving stress, and helping you sleep better.

So why don’t people exercise regularly? Probably for the same reasons that people don’t eat well, though they know they should. Eat well – this, too, you have control over, so do it. To start, simply eat less processed and packaged foods and more fresh fruits, vegetables and fish. Stop drinking sugary (and diet) drinks, and drink more water.

Cut out fried, starchy and preserved foods and stop supersizing. Look at your plate and remember that the stomach your food is about to enter is only about the size of your fist – so ease up on the portions. But you know all this – so why oh why can’t you/we stick to a healthy diet and regular exercise?

Your psyche: this is the all-important wild card. This is the thing that no one wants to talk about because, well, we haven’t quite figured out how to make it work for us. Well, some of us have, sort of.

We know that using repetition for mental conditioning (changing your mind) works, so feed your mind positive images and thoughts of where you want to be, how you want to look, and what you want to do, throughout the day. Stop harping on what you don’t have – express your wants as desire, not coming from a place of lack.

We also know that you have to believe what you are saying way deep down inside for it to really manifest in your life, so say it, live it, and do what you can (like exercise, eat and spend money wisely) to feed your subconscious the messages that you do want to be healthy, thin, prosperous, and happy.

And we know that if you live in the negative, you will stay in the negative, so stop berating yourself, stop not taking care of yourself, and stop putting everyone else’s needs ahead of yours. Maybe it is easy to say – hard to do – but it’s worth a go if you really want to change.

(Courtesy of Debbie Rocker – Yahoo Health)

 

Turn Unhealthy Habits Into Healthy Ones April 15, 2008

Filed under: It's All About Me — thecrazymommafiles @ 12:29 am

Can you change your unhealthy habits to healthy ones? Sure, why not?

It’ll take some discipline and willpower in the beginning, but after a few weeks, you’ll see how your new routine will become the norm.

1) Eating late at night – make yourself a meal bedtime. Put eating to sleep at 6, or 7, or 8 o’clock, whatever is realistic for you. Make your eating bedtime at least two hours before you actually go to bed.

2) Not exercising – Get a friend to join you three days a week for a walk before you start your day. Make a commitment to each other and hold each other accountable. You may want to impose a penalty – $10 every time you miss a workout?

3) Eating too much sugar, bread or fast food – It’s tough to reduce intake. Easier, I have found, to take it out altogether. So if sugar, or coffee, or soda is your nemesis, take that option off the table, entirely. You will be amazed at how powerful, and healthy, you feel once you do.

4) Beating yourself up – this is a big one. Do you look at what you are wearing and pick out everything you don’t like? Do you curse yourself for eating too much? Stop it!

Becoming aware of what you are doing is the first step. When you notice yourself doing it, reverse it by saying something nice – even if you don’t believe it at first. Force yourself to praise yourself – surely you can find something that you appreciate about you.

This will change how you see yourself, how you feel about yourself, and ultimately how you treat yourself. That means the behavior that you have been doing that has given you license to get down on yourself will stop.

Healthy habits – get some.

(Courtesy of Debbie Rocker – Yahoo Health)

 

Recipe of the Week – Club Pasta Salad April 14, 2008

Filed under: Recipe of the Week — thecrazymommafiles @ 4:26 pm

Here is a quick and easy pasta salad recipe that I found. You can make it for lunch or as a side dish. I can’t wait to make this for my family!

Club Pasta Salad
1 package Betty Crocker® Suddenly Salad® ranch & bacon pasta salad mix
1/2 cup mayonnaise
1 1/2 cups cut-up cooked turkey or chicken
1/2 cup cherry tomato, cut into fourths
1/2 cup julienne strips Cheddar cheese
4 cups bite-size pieces lettuce

1. Fill large saucepan 2/3 full of water. Heat to boiling. Stir in contents of Pasta-Vegetable pouch. Gently boil uncovered 15 minutes, stirring occasionally, until tender.
2. Drain pasta. Rinse with cold water. Shake to drain well.
3. Stir Seasoning mix and mayonnaise in large bowl. Stir in pasta and remaining ingredients except lettuce. Serve on lettuce. Refrigerate leftovers (if desired, moisten with a few teaspoons milk before servings).

Special Touch
For a quick yet elegant meal, serve with bagel sticks and flavored cream cheese spreads. Stick frilly toothpicks in the bagel sticks to give them the look of a club sandwich!

Simplify
Four cups of mixed salad greens from your supermarket salad bar section–or a bag of prewashed lettuce–saves you the trouble of washing and tearing lettuce.

 

Pity Party Is Over April 10, 2008

Filed under: Life - Mood: Reflective — thecrazymommafiles @ 11:45 pm

I have wallowed in my pity for too long. I have to get myself out of this funk. I have to pick myself up and keep going. I have my beautiful family to think about. I know God will not put any more on me that I can’t bear. I just have to trust Him even when I lack understanding.

What would my life be like if I had this baby and there was something wrong. That would be more of a hardship on us. Not that I wouldn’t do it, but the Lord know best. His plan is perfect. It is not for me to question. I have to stand on His Word and my faith.

This pity party is over. My heart is still aching, but I will not wallow in sorrow. I will grieve for the loss of my baby, but I will not let this defeat me. I give God all the praise. Thank you, God, for your grace and mercy.

 

Why has He forsaken me??? April 9, 2008

Filed under: Life - Mood: Heavy-Hearted — thecrazymommafiles @ 10:13 pm
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I can’t help but to feel like I’m being punished for something. I mean, this was the one time that my pregnancy wasn’t a “slip up.” Don’t get me wrong, I love all my kids with all the love that a mother could have for a child. But neither one of them were planned. Not that they weren’t wanted, but they weren’t planned.

The one time that we were actually wanting to get pregnant, something goes wrong! Was it something that I did? I can’t help but to think that. This is the second time that we’ve been through this and I don’t know why it’s happening to me. I’d already started to love this baby as if I was holding him/her in my arms. Now I will never get to hold her, kiss her, nurse her. My heart is breaking and I don’t know if I will be able to get over this. I’m 35 years old and this was supposed to be our last baby. But now what? We all know what the research says…women who have babies over the age of 35 have a higher chance of having a problem pregnancy.

It just seems like everytime I have something good going in my life, it’s yanked from under my feet. I guess I don’t deserve to be happy. It’s been proven time and time again. Maybe I should just stop trying to be happy and accept that my life is supposed to be anything but happy. His Word said that He would never forsake me. But why do I feel as if he has?

 

I’m losing my baby! April 8, 2008

Filed under: Life - Mood: Devastated — thecrazymommafiles @ 8:24 pm
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Well, I went to the doctor today and the news wasn’t any better. The second blood test came back positive, but with very low levels of pregnancy hormone. The doctor’s exact words were “almost none existant.” We had the sonogram and he was unable to see the baby or even the sac and also confirmed that it’s not an ectopic pregancy. How can this be? I still feel pregnant!!! My heart is breaking in two! Dr. LaStrap said that either one of two things could be happening. Either I didn’t get pregnant when I think I did or either the pregnancy isn’t viable and I will miscarry. I’m pretty positive about when I got pregnant, so it’s not that. We had more blood work done and she told me to call tomorrow for the results. She said my hormone level is 35 and it goes up everyday. By tomorrow it should have gone up instead of down if this pregnancy has a chance. Something inside of me tells me that that isn’t going to happen. Nothing in my life ever works out the way I want. Why should I expect this to be any different. I’m devastated and can’t understand why bad things always happen to me. Have I been such a bad person that I don’t deserve to be happy? Once again, reality is smacking me back into the present!

 

Devastation April 8, 2008

Filed under: Life - Mood: Devastated — thecrazymommafiles @ 3:36 am
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I don’t understand how this could be. I take 3 HPT and they all come back positive. Go to the doctor today and get the worse news of my life. Their test was negative. I’m not understanding how this is so. I’m still having all of the symptoms of being pregnant. I’ve been sitting and crying my eyes out all day long. I’ve grown to love this baby already as if I was holding him/her in my arms. I just don’t understand!

S came home from work to be with me. He doesn’t know what to do for me. I’m trying not to cry because I know he doesn’t want me to. I have to go back to the doctor tomorrow for a sonogram and get the results of the blood test. I’m trying to keep my hopes up, but my heart is breaking all the same. Lord, why me?

 

Recipe of the Week – Dijon Chicken and Pasta Salad April 7, 2008

Filed under: Recipe of the Week — thecrazymommafiles @ 4:34 pm

Here’s another quick and easy salad. Five ingredients and 20 minutes are all you need to put together this super main-dish salad! Great for lunch or dinner.

Dijon Chicken and Pasta Salad

Prep Time:5 min
Start to Finish:15 min
Makes:4 servings

1 package Betty Crocker® Suddenly Salad® classic pasta salad mix
2 tablespoons vegetable oil
3 tablespoons cold water
2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
1 cup cubed cooked chicken

1. Fill 3-quart saucepan 2/3 full of water. Heat to boiling. Add contents of Pasta-Vegetable pouch to boiling water. Gently boil about 12 minutes or until pasta is tender; drain. Rinse with cold water until chilled; drain.
2. Stir together Seasoning mix, oil, water and mustard in large bowl. Stir in pasta-vegetable mixture. Stir in chicken. Toss with Parmesan Topping. Refrigerate any remaining salad.

Substitution
One cup of cooked frozen (thawed) imitation crabmeat chunks instead of chicken turns this into a seafood delight.

Variation
If you’re an artichoke lover, stir in a 14-ounce can of artichoke hearts, drained and cut into fourths, with the chicken.

 

Did You Know – Today In History April 7, 2008

Filed under: Did You Know — thecrazymommafiles @ 1:53 pm

A few interesting tidbits of information that I came across…

Today In History:
1860 – W.K. Kellogg, who pioneerd the process of making corn flakes, along with his brother, John Harvey, was born. Against his brother’s wishes, W.K. allowed anyone to observe the process. One observer was C.W. Post, who copied the process and started his own company, Post Cereals, which later became General Foods. W.K. was upset about the betrayal and started his own company, The Sanitas Food Company, boasting corn flakes as as a healthy breakfast food. The company later became the Battle Creek Toasted Corn Company, later to be renamed Kellogg Company.

Repeal of Prohibition – It was almost 43 years ago today that most states had repealed the prohibition of alcohol. Even the large group of women how supported prohibition due to the negative effects they felt alcohol consumption would have on their families, had started to support the cause. Although President Hoover strongly supported prohibition, prohibiton ended with the election of President Franklin Delano Roosevelt who allowed the alcohol content in beer to be raised to 3.2%. Soon after a proposition was made to amend the Constitution. The 18th amendment to the Constitution was the only amendment to be repealed.

 

No More Plastic Bags April 7, 2008

Filed under: Family Business — thecrazymommafiles @ 1:14 pm


Well, I took the next step in my process of “going green!” No more plastic grocery bags here…well, we won’t be totally plastic bag free as I do like to use the bags to line the trash cans in the bathrooms and I still have a huge stash of them from previous shopping trips. But I purchased my first “green bags” for only $1.00 each at Wal-Mart, which was very inexpensive as the bags hold 2-3 times more than the plastic bags. Now the only thing I have to remember is to make sure they are in the car when I go grocery shopping. Hence lies my problem…